The more of me you inspect, the more of yourself you'll see reflect. Just an average human being. Suppose to make ourselves stand out in these things but kind of hard to do when we are all pretty much the same. That old cliche, work hard but play harder... Like spending time with friends, listening to good music... Pretty much live by one rule... "be a simple kind of man.... one that you love and understand..." To be honest a physical attraction must be present at first... looking past that though, she has to definatly have a sense of humor, can take some sarcasm and be able to dish it right back. She has to stand strong in her beliefs, hold her own in lively debates and not cowar away from a challange. She has to be forgiving... because oh yes we will falter.., other than that.. pretty much she has to be able to speak to me like a grown up when I'm an adult and be able to play with me in the park when I'm a child.